Hang In There

Devastation does not even begin to describe it. I am sad that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett have separated. Or so the news reports say. If what the reports are saying is true then that is just sad. They were the look up to couple. I mean they are the people you look up to and say well there is hope in Marriage. However the same reports say that they have denied being separated so let that be true.

We use to look up to Will Smith in Fresh Prince of Belair. I used to oogle and droole at him when he used to act in Fresh Prince.

Then he got Married and we were all green with envy and I used to say to myself hmmmh if I was there maybe it would have been me. (Oh how I wish)

He started producing these movies one great one after another one. My favorite was wild wild west.

So now what could be the matter? reports from online entertainment magazines claim that the couple is not divorced. My point for this post actually is just to let them and everyone out there who is married to HANG IN THERE. Off course not everyday will be sunny and like New Edition say it in their track 'Can you stand the rain?'Can you really stand the those tough times with your spouse?

When you do decide to get married don't do it out of emotions.Emotions have a way of misleading people when making important decisions. Think about it this way; what will happen when the goose bumps are gone?

Think about it critically. The reasons people get married these days are scary hence the high number of divorce cases around....because the guy is good looking (its one of the traits) but should not be a major reason why you get married. Money is the major factor. So now what happens if your spouse gets laid off work? or God forbid they can no longer work because of sickness etc?? Will that now become a reason to divorce your spouse? Remember those very important words 'For better, for worse till death do us part?'

I'm still positive and will continue to be positive about marriage, because its a beautiful thing, a beautiful place to be at. I love being married to my husband even if we've just done it for two years and we can be called toddlers at this game, I enjoy being married to him because more than a husband, we've been through the thickest patches and the sunny days and there's more to come in the future that I cant wait to share with him. He is more than just a husband,he is my friend, lover and companion.

On that note i would like to end by saying 'HANG IN THERE' Marriage can and will always work if you choose to make it to work,there's a lot of hard work involved in making a marriage work.